![]() The nicest thing my partner could shake out of my loved ones was that I “really enjoy grocery shopping.” Recently, a friend named me maid of honor in her wedding on the website for the event, she described me as “strongly opinionated and fiercely persistent.” Not wrong, but not what I want on my tombstone. In grad school, a partner and I were assigned to write fake obituaries for each other by interviewing our families and friends. I’ve never really liked my personality, and other people don’t like it either. I began wondering whether the tactics of personality change could work on me. ![]() Researching the science of personality, I learned that it was possible to deliberately mold these five traits, to an extent, by adopting certain behaviors. I’m pretty open and conscientious, but I’m low on extroversion, middling on agreeableness, and off the charts on neuroticism. People tend to be happier and healthier when they score higher on the first four traits and lower on neuroticism. Psychologists say that personality is made up of five traits: extroversion, or how sociable you are conscientiousness, or how self-disciplined and organized you are agreeableness, or how warm and empathetic you are openness, or how receptive you are to new ideas and activities and neuroticism, or how depressed or anxious you are. Because these activities were supposed to make me happier, I approached them with the desperate hope of a supplicant kneeling at a shrine. I was midway through an experiment-sample size: 1-to see whether I could change my personality. Check out more from this issue and find your next story to read.
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